Someone that comes to mind who has a distinct public persona then my own is one of my closest friend whom does not what to be mentioned unfortunetly. If curious to know who this person is then I'd rather you ask me personally. I, myself when it comes to my public persona am very outgoing, friendly, and warm but my friend is different from myself. She has the type of public persona who is shy until you get to know her personally, a great friend, hilarious, trustworthy, caring, softhearted, considerate, and blunt to certain people. I think both of our personas a quite different because she is an ISFJ and i'm an INTP/ENTP, (INTP & ENTP is described on my previous posts) http://cassyolazo.blogspot.ca/#!/2013/02/entp-intj.html we do get along but we see things differently. I think about the future while she thinks about the moment and past. Living in the moment and past is not a bad thing don't get me wrong but you should also look ahead in life. Ask yourself questions, where can I see myself in 20 years? What do I enjoy doing? What do I wanna do for a life time? If all you do is dwell on the past and moment your not going to get very far. You'll be stuck around your 20's, living at home, relying on your parents, and having a part time job for a life time that pays 14$ hr. Realisitically, you can't depends on that. My public persona builds me to communicate great with people without hesitation, create new frienships unexpectadly, and do very well on interviews without getting nervous. I wouldn't trade who I've grown to be for anything in the world, you have to accept who you are, do changes that will benifit yourself and future, and learn to live with it. Everyone isn't perfect but we should never change our ourselves drastically for someone else. Everything in life has a reason especially for who we are.
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